Single & Sober

I woke up one day and realized I was one decision away from a different life, so I decided to make some changes.

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Dating in hookup Culture

What kind of fuckery is this? I did NOT sign up for this shit. I wish I could pinpoint the…

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A Question of Morals

As I sat minding my own business and casually swiping through the options on Bumble, I stumbled upon the profile…

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6 Months Sober Milestone

I hit the 6 month milestone last week. 184 days. 24 weeks. 4,416 hours sober. 6 months without my nightly…

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Why I Gave Dating a Big F-You

Why I chose to remove myself from the (SEEKING aspect of) dating game. I hate dating. Like H.A.T.E. it. The…

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Boundaries and the Assholes Epidemic

Have you ever just reallllyy wanted to throat punch someone? Like POW, right in the jugular. Question… How do you…

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Old Souls Love Differently

You prefer your own company and you are often thought of as a loner or a homebody. It’s not that you are lonely, you just prefer our own company. You enjoy the comfort of our…

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Do values and beliefs trump feelings and compatibility?

You meet someone and you two click immediately. Sparks are flying, the stars align and all is well with the…

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Why you can’t change them

Why you can’t expect them to change. We can point out all the damaging aspects of a person and lay…

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Birthday Celebrations

It’s my baby girls birthday today! Today she turned 8. I didn’t get to see her today. I didn’t get…

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